Happy Gay Pride, New York City!  Sunday is the official Gay Pride Day in Manhattan featuring an elaborate and colorful parade down 5th Avenue and topped off with an over-the-top dance on the pier in Chelsea.

We thought this picture was fun and colorful, and while we aren't exactly encouraging everyone to rip off their shirts and head into the streets... we believe it is perfectly okay for any real man who looks like this cartoon to do so!

Please take a moment and act with class while you're out celebrating Gay Pride.  We aren't asking you to be anything other than who you are, but we believe it is important that we set a great example of who we really are as the world watches our celebration.

Now throw on as many rainbow items as you can find and head out to celebrate!  It's Gay Pride for goodness sakes.  Get out and live the like the GaySocialites that you are!

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 SPF - SPF - SPF - We have heard it all before. SPF needs to be applied at all times. Regardless of climate, skin condition, and specially after a facial or chemical peel. It's times like these that we forget about the importance of proper SPF. We tend to walk around a lot and go places and ignore the importance of proper SPF. Obagi's Healthy Skin Protection ( pictured above ) has a seal of approval from the skin cancer foundation - Which means you KNOW you are fully protected against both the harmfull UVA and UVB Rays of the sun. Dont fool yourself with SPF's that dont protect you fully and can cause future damage.  For those going to a warmer climate or those with more compromised skin we also have a Physical Sunblock that will completelly protect your face from any sun damage - So you know you are in good hands. Dont let sun damage put a damper on your summer plans. PROTECT YOURSELF!!!!! 

If you have any additional questions feel free to email or call 646-290-0749.

Have a Happy Summer Everyone!!!!!! 

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GAY PRIDE 2010

It's officially Gay Pride Week in New York City, and we hope you'll be gay and proud today and every day!

Happy Pride from your friends at gaysocialites.blog!

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For more information on Obagi Clenziderm systems or any other medical skincare advice feel free to contact or call 646-290-0749!

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FROM THE EDITOR

Long-time readers know that my online career began as a blogger for QueerPlanet (now GenerationQ), so naturally I tend to defend bloggers.  However, this is one case where I can't.

Celebrity blogger, Perez Hilton, recently tweeted a photo of Miley Cyrus taken while she wasn't wearing any panties.  That's right, a grown man publicly released a photo of a 17-year-old girl on the internet.  

I've seen "To Catch a Predator", so I know this is illegal.  Perez Hilton (born Mario Lavenderia) should be charged and receive jail time for his actions.  This gives a bad name to gay men and the online editorial community.  

The photo has been taken down, and some are questioning whether it was really Miley Cyrus or not.  Regardless, Perez should be punished.  If this photo isn't the one, this just proves that he will stop at nothing as he believes he is above the law.  I challenge the po-po to prove him wrong!

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Out with the OLD and in with the NEW

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 Just log on to http://www.obagi.blog/ - Join the Obagi Inner Circle program, share your Obagi Story and you could be the next Obagi Ambassador - 

Using the form below, tell us how your favorite Obagi product has made all the difference for your skin…and your life! Obagi’s panel of judges will choose the best success stories to represent the Obagi brand on the Obagi website, through Inner Circle communications, and in related social media. Selected Obagi Ambassadors will also have the chance to try new products and will receive Obagi for Life!*

*The Obagi for Life reward is defined as receiving the Obagi product of your choice up to $5000 (retail value), with no expiration date.

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Continue reading "Crows Feet, Wrinkles, go away with Elastiderm 2x a day............" »

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Over the years, your skin has been exposed to a number of environmental stressors, which cause damage that can reach the deepest layers of your skin. Photodamage, caused by the sun’s harmful rays, is the main cause of the fine lines, wrinkles and age spots that you may already see or you will eventually see on your face.

As the #1 prescription-strength, physician-dispensed skin care system, the Obagi Condition and Enhance  System can actually transform your skin at the cellular level. By addressing the signs of photodamage and restoring the healthy function of your skin cells, this system is clinically proven to result in younger- and healthier-looking skin.

Don't waste time and money with products that do not work. Because of the medical nature of Obagi Medical Products, we are actually able to penetrate into the deeper layers of the skin, causing a healthy cell work out, making them fresh and new and removing the damaged skin cell that have been exposed to environmental and sun damage over the years.

For more information on Obagi Medical Products please visit www.obagi.blog  or contact - Complimentary skin care consultations available - So you can learn whats the proper skin care treatment for you.

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 This week I have some very important things to report - Our Obagi Clarifying Serum has won the Elle Magazine 2010 Genius Award -

The Kit - Alyria Intense Wrinkle Correction “increases collagen production after treatment with fractional lasers”; Elta MD UV Clear Sunscreen SPF 46 is broad-spectrum protection for sensitive skin; Obagi-c rx System “helps maintain improvement of brown spots”; “a great antioxidant,” Skinceuticals Phloretin CF helps prevent new sun spots.

And today is Melanoma awareness week - To learn more visit http://www.melanomamonday.org/ 

With the weather starting to feel like summer, do not fool yourself. Make sure you have SPF available at all times. Skin Cancer is rampant in the USA. Keep in mind that it doesnt always manifest itself so easily. The best thing to do is make sure you have your yearly check up to be safe and SPF SPF SPF SPF. You CAN enjoy life and especially Fire Island this summer as long as you have proper protection. We have Physical Sunblock that has no chemicals and will protect your skin 100% against the damaging rays of the sun and you can enjoy your summer. To learn more about proper skin care for the summmer feel free to visit www.obagi.blog , email or call 646-290-0749. 

 Have a safe summer everyone!!!!!

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 This week I just wanted to report on whats new in Skin Care. Seems like there's not too much that has changed.

1 - Home Skin Care - NOTHING replaces a good skin care regimen thas customized to your own skin care needs. Don't waste your time going shopping without know what's right for your own skin. Don't try to guess - There are skin care professionals and those that can help you for a reason. DO your reseach before you flip through pages of magazines or adds. I know the temptation is there.

2- SPF - SPF - SPF - We have heard it all before. SPF needs to be applied at all times. Regardless of climate, skin condition, and specially after a facial or chemical peel.

3- Talking about Chemical peels - Exfoliation is excellent for you. It will help your body get rid of cells that are just non functioning and bring bresher cells to the surface. Again consult with a professional to make sure you are doing this properly and dont over exfoliate. Most creams have some form of exfoliation but its nice to every week or two do something nice for you. Again dont go on your own on a shopping spree. use what is right for you.

4- Tanning bed and spray tanning - As usual a big no no. No matter that they say out there. It will speed up the aging process and make you look very undesirable. We have enough skin cancer patients as it it.

5- If you know anyone who has cancer or skin cancer we just partnered with a wonderful organization www.lookgoodfeelbetter.org - To help men, women, and teenagers look better and regain self esteem after going through chemotherapy and other treatments.

6- The battle of the neurotoxins - Botox VS Dysport. There is not a very strong evidence or clinical trial. But from what i have seen so far men should always ask for BOTOX. We gave strong mass muscle which we will benefit more from a more precise product. Dysport can be used as a touch up or as more of a prevention treatment. If you have lines that are more stubburn or need a little more help i'd say BOTOX!!!!

Should you have any specific questions, do not hesitate in contacting me at 646-290-0749 or

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LET'S CELEBRATE

It's April 20th, also known as 4/20.  A day when stoners across the globe are getting blazed a little more than usual.

420 Day isn't exactly a national bank holiday or anything, but it has become a day when regular pop heads and those who just want a reason for a buzz to get stoned.

So where did all of this 420 stuff come from and how did it get tied to weed?  According to Steven Hager, the editor of the leading marijuana mag - High Times, it all started as a teenage trend at San Rafael High School in 1971.  Hager says the numbers 420 were adopted as a code word for students to meet after school at 4:20 to get stoned.

If you plan to consume some good ole fashioned cannabis on this 4/20 Day in an area where it isn't legal, keep in mind there's no get out of jail free card even if this is a widely celebrated sub-culture holiday.

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A lot of people have been telling me that they don't understand what the big deal about President Barack Obama issuing an executive memorandum to allow gay couples visitation rights in hospitals.  The reason this is such a big deal is due to stories like this one.

It isn't a happy story, but it's true and hopefully behind us now.  Carl and Harold were a happy old gay couple in California when suddenly due to a freak accident, they were separated and stripped off all their joint possessions.

Now that President Obama has decided to let the patients themselves decide who will get the visitation rights when they're hospitalized, this shouldn't be a problem any more!

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TWITTER

This is my favorite tweet of the day from President Barack Obama as he announced he is extending hospital visitation rights to same-sex partners. 

Here are our tweets for the afternoon from our Editorial Director, Ronnie Hokanson.  Tweet with me @charleswinters.

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Now that spring is here, its time to prepare our skins befre the summer season. Contrary to the public opinion and scandalous media - who can forget the episode of sex in the city when someone gets a chemical peel and has to wear a veil for weeks.

Chemical peels are fast, easy and painless. They do remove deal skin cells and help reveal a healthier glowing skin. SPF after a procedure is mandatory. There are hundreds of types of chemical peels and they all address different concerns. We have very light chemical peels that just freshen up the skin giving you a nicer appearance. Those can be performed right before an event without any downtime.

Medium deph peels like Jessners or low concentration TCA will give better results and penetrate deeper on the skin and address concerns like enlarged pores, diminish fine lines, wrinkles and give you a more youthfull appearance that will last for an average of 4/6 weeks. How long those results will remain will depend on how well you are taking care of your skin and how much sun damage you have had in the past. Anyone and everyone can benefit from a chemical peel treatment. Do not need to wait until you start to see deep lines or severe sun damage. The same way that one doesnt need to wait till they reach the age of 45 to get a professional teeth cleaning. It's much easier and much less work to take care of skin care concerns before they become too hard to handle.

The Obagi Condition and Enhance is the perfect homecare system to go along your chemical peels procedure and maintain the results you have achieved from your medical professional.

Here are the types of chemical peels narrowed down for you:

Glycolics

Alpha hydroxy acids in concentrations of 30 percent or more are applied for two to five minutes (or more depending on skin texture and condition) to slough away the upper layer of dead skin cells as well as penetrate into the upper layers of the dermis to soften fine lines, promote a rosy glow, encourage better penetration of other skin-care products or even dry an acne flare up. Glycolic peels are no-downtime procedures, with mild redness or irritation the only likely after-effect. Results vary depending on skin condition and daily regimen product usage.

 Glycolic Acid Peels come in varied strengths and concentrations.

Power C – Peel

This is an amazing treatment for all skin types including even the most sensitive skin. Vitamin C will help skin appear firmer and more radiant, fighting environmental and free radical damage to help the skin’s immune response. This peel also helps reduce the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, patches, sun-damage and uneven texture. This is a perfect lunch time peel with no flaking of the skin or any down time.

Lactic Acid Peels

The 70% Lactic Acid peel is used for skin rejuvenation. Patients with acne, moderate wrinkling, or sun damage can achieve noticeable results in the look and feel of their skin New collagen and elastic fibers are produced in the dermal layer of the skin. Over a period of time, the skin’s surface begins to look younger and smoother. The restoration of elasticity actually causes the disappearance of fine lines!

Jessner’s

The common name for a deeper-peeling solution of resorcinol with lactic and salicylic acids, the Jessner’s solution is layered on the skin to treat pigmentation, acne, acne scarring and other skin irregularities. Aggressive peeling and occasional crusting forms within two to four days of the peel, depending on how many layers of the solution are applied and condition of the skin at the time of treatment. Redness and swelling may last a few days or more. Results are visible with new, clearer skin within 3 to 4 days.

Obagi Blue Peel System

If you’re looking to accelerate your Transformation and interested in a chemical peel procedure, then the Obagi Blue Peel System may be right for you. Obagi Blue Peel is conducted in your Physician’s office. Prior to and after the procedure, your Physician should recommend use of the Obagi Nu-Derm System or the Obagi Condition and Enhance System.

Unlike common alpha-hydroxy peels or at-home procedures, the Obagi Blue Peel puts control of your treatment in professional hands. Based on your individual needs and skin condition, your skin professional determines the strength of the peel.

The Obagi Blue Peel uses Trichloroacetic Acid (TCA) as the active ingredient mixed with the patented Blue Base from Obagi. Your skin professional will apply the Obagi Blue Peel based on your level of damage and your desired level of Transformation.

 For more information on any of the services mentioned here or any of Obagi Medical Products, feel free to contact me at or call 646-290-0749.

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EDITORIAL

It's no secret that I think Hillary Rodham Clinton is one of the most extraordinary leaders of our time.  During her bid for the presidency, I not only voted for her; but also endorsed her and actively campaigned for her.  Some seem to believe that it was harder on me the day that Clinton finally withdrew from the race than it was on her.

However, I believe that everything happens for a reason.  Maybe Hillary Clinton was meant to be a Supreme Court Justice instead.  President Barack Obama has the chance to make that happen as Justice John Paul Stevens has announced he'll be retiring from the bench this summer.

Clinton holds the most impressive resume, and she might be welcomed by Republicans during confirmation hearings.

As the First Lady of Arkansas and later the United States, Hillary was very active in politics the entire time.  She supported her husband, Bill Clinton, on all of his endeavors.  She even stood by his side as he had an extramarital affair, lied about it and got impeached.

Later Mrs. Clinton did what few others have successfully accomplished by moving to New York, winning over voters and heading to the US Senate.  Not only did Hillary win the election, but she also fit in as a New Yorker.  Within a few months of her first term, most New Yorkers forgot that the Clinton's weren't born and raised in the Empire State.  She did exactly what a junior Senator needed to do to earn the respect of her colleagues and her constituents.

As a presidential candidate, Hillary shattered that infamous "glass ceiling" coming closer to the Oval Office than any other woman probably ever has.  We all knew that whoever won the Democratic nomination would win the White House.

Now, as Secretary of State, Clinton has earned the respect of both political parties and leaders world-wide.

Does anyone else have such a resume?  I think not.  It is time for the President to make his smartest move yet.  Barack Obama needs to appoint Hillary Clinton to the United States Supreme Court.

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All of the regular readers and GaySocialites know that I'm generally unlucky in love. 

I date a lot, but I am very non-committal.  Unlike most gay guys and lesbians, I don't like to go on a single date that lasts for weeks, months and sometimes years.  I believe that's why it seems that so many LGBT relationships end so early.

My preference is to date someone for several months before dating exclusively and frequent sleepovers won't happen within the first year.  I even think it is okay for the person that I'm dating and I to see other people until we decide to commit.  

This doesn't always go over well.  I've been called a polygamist so many times that my friends call me a polygy-gay.  

As I found myself single again, I'm turning to the experts on love to help me find my way.   Since I'm not a millionaire, Patti Stanger wants nothing to do with me.  Her right hand man, however, is willing to give some advice. 

The season of "Millionaire Matchmaker" winds up next week, so to say good-bye, Destin Jude Pfaff is giving me love advice! 

I'm very excited!  According to Destin's bio on the Bravo website:

"Upon moving to Los Angeles to pursue a career in screenwriting and filmmaking, Destin stumbled into a position as Office Manager of the Millionaire's Club through Craig's List. Although he was not thrilled about running another company (something he found himself doing quite a bit), he and the Founder and President of Millionaire's Club, Patti Stanger, instantly hit it off and under her instruction he soon discovered he had a knack for matchmaking. He has since become the most successful male matchmaker in Millionaire’s Club history. He is Stanger's right hand man and now COO of the company. He handles advertising, sales, office management, public appearances, contract negotiations and much more for Stanger's business and is also her full partner in numerous entertainment endeavors. [sic]"

Check back next week to find out what kind of advice Destin has for me!  We'll also have a sneak peak of the "Millionaire Matchmaker" season finale and the reunion special.

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Regardless of your age, if you have healthy, young-looking skin you want to keep it that way for as long as you can. But your skin may show early signs of environmental damage that begins to its their toll in the form of freckles, age spots, crow’s feet and creases. Specifically formulated for photodamaged skin, the comprehensive Obagi-C Rx System is a prescription-strength, physician-dispensed regimen that provides the necessary elements to ensure more enduring young-looking skin. It is the perfect opportunity to start early with corrective Rx therapy and long-term prevention. With the synergistic elements of 10% L-Ascorbic Acid and 4% Hydroquinone, Obagi-C Rx offers an easy-to-use regimen that provides correction for young-looking skin, and prevention against future photodamage.

If you must have the most minimum care, Obagi's Sunguard our SPF 30 will provide adequate protection and keep your skin nice and healthy. Sun Protection MUST be used daily regardless of weather condition. There are treatments that we can do to erase any signs of sun damage the earlier the better and less complicated the treatment will be. Light chemical peels like glycolic can allow for your skin the 'breathe' better again and as long as you maintain the home care treatment you will be in great shape. The same way that you don't brush your teeth only when you have a date, you dont just take care of your skin when its time to go to fire island.

Special for gaysocialites readers, complimentary skin care consultation thats is customized to your own needs. Be prepared summer will be here before we know it. Obagi Sunguard effective to treat and prevent against skin cancer - Seal of approval from the skin cancer society.

 For more information contact or call 646-290-0749.

As featured in Glow Magazine - http://viewer.zmags.blog/publication/e907a72f#/e907a72f/1

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Happy Easter from your friends and family at gaysocialites.blog.

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FROM THE EDITOR

It is with a very bittersweet news that I write you this letter from the editor, and that's because it will be my last posting here at gaysocialites.blog.

Effective immediately, gaysocialites.blog is now under the ownership of Light Ministries.  While the new organization that will be running the site is religion-based, they have assured us they will keep the site online as an outlet for members of the LGBT community from across the world.

I have really enjoyed establishing this site, and I've made some great friends and contacts.  Since I signed a confidential contract with Light Ministries, I can't tell you much.  However, it will be a while before you see me online as I am required to delete my social networking sites and refrain from writing online for at least 3 years.

Thank you all for everything, and thank you to the gullible souls who actually believed this crap.  Happy April Fool's Day!  We've been observing Spring Break this week and working on a limited schedule.  We'll be back in the full swing of things on Monday (as gay as can be, sans the religion)!

Have a Happy Easter!!
Charles

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 We have been talking about different ways to address different skin conditions and how to treat them properly. Well, now its time we graduate and marry procedures with skin care.

With The Obagi Condition and Enhance System we can just do that. We are all getting botox, fillers, chemical peels and such. With the Obagi Condition and Enhance System we are able to enhance the quality of our skin and actually make the result of all the other procedures last much longer. With the therapeutic properties of the system we can actually make that chemical peel last longer, the same with microdermabrasion, botox and fillers. Who doesn't want their results to last and last longer?

Feel free to join my group on facebook, where you can post questions and they will be answered. http://www.facebook.blog/#!/pages/OBAGI-MEDICAL-PRODUCTS/98608330442?ref=ts

As usual feel free to contact me at  - Have a great week and be ready to make those procedures last longer now with the Obagi Condition and Enhance System.

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STUPID BITCHES CLUB

It shocks me that there are people out there who can't love their children for who they grow up to be. 

This story a gay high school student who earned nation-wide support for standing up for his right to bring another male student to the prom starts as an uplifting story.  However, according to the Macon Telegraph [via Project Q Atlanta], Derrick Martin's parents have now kicked him out of the house over the whole thing.

For that, Mr. and Mrs. Martin have been inducted into the gaysocialites.blog Stupid Bitches Club.  We know they're just ignorant, so we're willing to kick them out if they smarten up.

Derrick says he has received tons of encouragement from across the world.  There has even been a Facebook Group set up in his honor. Since his parents are stupid bitches, Martin says he has been staying with a friend.

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Robert Pattinson is one of the hottest actors out there, and he is probably about to become a gay icon.  In the upcoming film, "Little Ashes", Pattison plays Salvador Dali and finds himself in some pretty intense man-on-man sex scenes.

The scenes were tough, Pattinson told GQ Magazine saying that the rough gay sex was recorded on an open set.  At times, he even became distracted as the Spanish electricians were giggling over the scene.

At one point, Pattinson said he was required to have a “nervous breakdown while doing it doggie-style”.  I guess all that pressure made it easy to go a little nutty.  Meanwhile, so many men will envy Robert's co-star Javier Beltrán who is also a straight man.

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CLENZIderm M.D.™ Systems

Penetrate to the root of acne to clear skin fast

Obagi CLENZIderm M.D. Systems are the only prescription-strength acne treatments that contain a patented, solubilized form of 5% benzoyl peroxide (BPO) to penetrate deep into the follicle and treat acne where it starts.

Available in two distinct systems, for normal to oily skin or normal to dry skin, these simple, 3-step, physician-dispensed acne therapies from Obagi Medical are clinically proven to better penetrate the follicles for effective P. acnes bacteria reduction and rapid lesion reduction.*

*Postered at the 2007 Annual American Academy of Dermatology Meeting. Click here to view full study.

Who can benefit from the CLENZIderm M.D. Normal to Oily System?

• Patients with normal to oily skin
• Patients who prefer gels
• Patients with less sensitive skin who can tolerate most topical acne treatments

Who can benefit from the CLENZIderm M.D. Normal to Dry System?

• Patients with normal to dry skin
• Patients who prefer lotions
• Patients with sensitive skin, or skin that is naturally dry
• Patients looking to minimize side effects of retinoids or other acne treatments

To learn more about which system is right for your skin, feel free to schedule your complimentary consultation by calling 646-290-0749 or email

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• Prevent premature signs of aging, including fine lines and wrinkles
• Protect against future damage
• Stimulate collagen production for firmer, more resilient skin
• Lighten and brighten skin for more even tone

Continue reading "Get Ready For Spring with Obagi Medical Products" »

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Obagi-C^® Rx Systems

Over-the-Top Protection You Won’t Find Over-the-Counter

If you are someone who likes the easy non-complicated skin care regimen, the C-RX System is perfect for you. Simple, easy to use and you are on your way to a healthier looking skin.

With Obagi-C Rx, you’re on your way to healthier, refreshed, revitalized skin from cell to surface. Obagi-C Rx Systems promote skin rejuvenation from the inside out using a formulation of prescription-strength 4% hydroquinone, which reduces the appearance of hyperpigmentation and age spots, combined with 10% L-ascorbic acid (Vitamin C)—the only topical antioxidant proven to stimulate collagen synthesis and protect your skin by minimizing future skin cell damage.

Obagi-C Rx Systems are ideal skin care if you have...

• Minimal fine lines
• Minimal unevenness of skin tone
• Mild hyperpigmentation and minimal age spots
• Intolerance to, or are not ready for, more aggressive anti-aging regimens
• Dry, normal, oily, or even sensitive skin

The Obagi Systems have been developed with the most sensitive and most delicate skin in mind, it's fda approved and now with a system formulated for normal to oily and one for normal to dry skin, we can address all skin care concerns and fast!

To learn more about which Obagi Skincare System is right for you, visit www.obagi.blog or email for more information and your complimentary skin care consultation.

There are some great before and after pictures here as well.

Continue reading "Over-The-Top Protection" »

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Unlike common alpha-hydroxy peels or at-home procedures, the Obagi Blue Peel puts control of your treatment in professional hands. Based on your individual needs and skin condition, your skin professional determines the strength of the peel.

The Obagi Blue Peel uses Trichloroacetic Acid (TCA) as the active ingredient mixed with the patented Blue Base from Obagi. Your skin professional will apply the Obagi Blue Peel based on your level of damage and your desired level of Transformation.

To find out more information about the Obagi Blue Peel please call 646-290-0749 or email

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STUPID BITCHES CLUB

The gaysocialites.blog Stupid Bitches Club picked up a new member this week as Gen. James Conway, our nation's top Marine, told Congress that he didn't think the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy should be repealed.

Conway, who clearly doesn't think before he speaks, asked:

"Do we enhance war fighting capabilities by allowing homosexuals to openly serve?" 

The answer is clearly, yes.  General Conway should have to dress like a clown with a big nose and bright red hair as he goes off to his daily Marine duties.  (I'm talking big shoes and all here.)  Let's see what happens if Mr. Conway has to act like someone else every day for the rest of his life.  Imagine if he had to hide who he really is just to do his job.  Then, I bet he would answer his own question.  Yes we would enhance our war fighting capabilities by allowing homosexuals to openly serve in the military.

Conway joins other freaks and losers in the Stupid Bitches Club such as Britney Spears, New Jersey Governor Chris Christie, Sarah Palin, Carrie Prejean and others.

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OUCH

Okay, so I google myself.  We all do it... don't we?

On occasion, I'll find articles quoting me that I never knew existed.  Sometimes they'll pick up on things I say about various philanthropic projects, other times they'll grab tid bits from here at gaysocialites.blog.

However, recently, I stumbled across a review of Rush on Yelp that contained my name.  It wasn't so pleasant.

Xander A. of Astoria, New York writes, "RUSH had gone through a rough patch about a year ago when they fired that annoying Ronnie Hokanson. OMG that guy is not entertaining or funny or cute! But they brought him back unfortunately."

Well I'm just gonna have to be more entertaining, funnier and cuter in the future!

I guess sometimes it takes brutal feedback like that to remind where you are in life.  Don't let me head to get too big!

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ELASTIderm^® Eye Treatment

We have all had those days, not enough sleep, get up in the morning - Have that important business meeting and we just look horrible. What to do? The first signs of lack of sleeping and aging that gives it all away - The Eyes!!!!!

ELASTIderm is a one of a kind eye treatment from Obagi Medical Products. By using a revolutionary bi-mineral complex called Copper Zinc Malonate, it works to help restore the elasticity around your eyes and reduce the appearance of visible fine lines and wrinkles.

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GOSPEL BY SHEALITA [SATIRE]

By Shealita Babay

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I have missed you ever so much. I want to take this time to thank every one of you out there who love, adore and worship me. I want to thank you for the love and support you have all given me while I was wrongfully imprisoned by those Damn Dirty Apes!

You see, me and a few of my Red Hat Auxiliary Church friends decided to go down to Haiti and take a few children off their hands, ya know to lighten the burden, but apparently they cherish them as much as they do their bananas! How dare they tell me that its illegal to abduct a child who isn’t even a good God-loving American citizen!?

I’m a White Woman, I have the ultimate golden ticket to do and say whatever the heck I wanna say. That Golden Ticket just happens to be this pure white alabaster porcelain skin, given to me by King Jesus.

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ADVICE

by Robbyne Kaamil

It's Wednesday and that means it is time for Advice Diva Robbyne Kaamil to come to the rescue!  This week she is tackling shot gun civil unions and working for a a former bed buddy.

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WORK OUT FOR THE SKIN

We have all spent enough time eating right, working out, shopping for the newest and hottest outfit out there - But let us not forget the largest organ of our bodies......... Our Skin.........

Over the years, our  skin has been exposed to a number of environmental stressors, which cause damage that can reach the deepest layers of your skin. Photodamage, caused by the sun’s harmful rays, is the main cause of the fine lines, wrinkles and age spots that you may already see or you will eventually see on your face.

Obagi Nu-Derm System, as featured on NewBeauty Magazine,and he Ellen Degeneres Show last Monday Feb 8th, the Nu-Derm System is the physician-dispensed, prescription-strength skin care system that can actually transform your skin at the cellular level. By addressing the signs of photo damage and restoring the healthy function of your skin cells, this system is clinically proven to result in younger- and healthier-looking skin.

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CHARLES ON...

No matter how much a homo tries to convince me otherwise, Valentine's Day is a straight person's "holiday".  While I had a delightful Valentine's Day with my guy of interest, I realized that the gays haven't exactly realized how to work themselves into Valentine's Day.

Sure all of the gay bars throw red and white clad V-Day themed parties, but that isn't the same.  I'm talking about expensive dinners, dancing, candy and roses.  Where do we fit into all that?

This Valentine's Day, my date did exactly what I would have hoped.  For the most part, we took low-key options like dinner and games at Dave & Busters followed by an interesting all dessert bar that's a bit off the beaten path.  

As two men on a date, I didn't feel like we were even noticed by the straight people (much to my surprise!)  Instead, it was the other gay couples that felt the need to single us out with a blatant point (probably accompanied by a statement like "look more gays") or an awkward wave (like we should recognize them from our gay directories or something).  I found it to be a bit annoying and quite embarrassing.

Meanwhile, the breeders were everywhere!  The straights were blocking sidewalks (because they have to hold hands everywhere they go), making out sporatically (because that can't wait until they're back home) and oggling into each other's eyes as they scarf down chocolate mousse and orange slices (that was probably in part because the music inside the restaurant was way too loud for casual conversation).

So should, we, as gay men, seize the opportunity to make out in public and get lost in each other's eyes once every year or should we say no to Valentine's Day the same way that the straights have to marriage equality.

Despite the fact Valentine's Day is represented by a fairy in a diaper complete with a bow and arrow  (and normally a lisp), I still don't feel comfortable doing those lovey dovey things for everyone to see on February 14th.  I don't wanna hold you homos back though, if you wanna be as obnoxious as the straight people that's fine with me.  Knock yourself out and a hit a few others while you're at it!

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DEAR ROBBYNE

Robbyne Kaamil is the Official Advice Diva for gaysocialites.blog.  She has matched wits with Howard Stern and appeared on numerous radio and television shows including Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.  Robbyne’s relationship advice has been featured in several magazines including – HX, Next and Essence.   Email your questions to Robbyne at robbyne@gaysocialites.blog.

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DOUCHE BAG ALERT

We've got a breaking douche bag alert out of New York.  State Senator and convicted girlfriend abuser, Hiram Monserrate, refuses to take "get out" for an answer.

On Tuesday, the New York State Senate voted to boot Monserrate out of office.  By an overwhelming vote of 53 to 8, Hiram's colleagues told him to hit the road misdemeanor assault against his girlfriend brought shame on the chamber.

We have known that Monserrate was a douche bag for a while.  Not only because he beat his girlfriend, but he was the ring leader in the New State Senate stalemate that could have ruined the chances of marriage equality in New York.

I say good-bye to this douche bag.  If they can get him to go.  Hiram wants to stay so badly that he is appealing.  Who would want to show up to work every day knowing that your co-workers hate you in 53 to 8 ration?  Not me!

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I'M JUST SAYING...

Pepsi has evidently opted out of Super Bowl advertising this year.  Instead, they're launching an interactive social networking type campaign that will interact with customers for months.

This has some advertising agencies and the networks who bid on the big game shaking in their shoes.  Could social networking be the end of Super Bowl advertising?

Social Networking Optimization is the new trend.  If companies, like Pepsi, can spend big bucks while building relationships with customers; who should they spend so much money making us laugh during boring football games?

I'm just saying...

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CHARLES ON

 

Its no real secret that I suffer from severe anxiety.  Some times, I even get so stressed and anxious that I have seizures.  Part of controlling it for me has always been good medication, but I more importantly want to learn to control it on my own.

Even though I studied Life Coaching, and I am an expert at most of the goal setting modules; I can't seem to get my own anxiety under control.

During a recent meeting with one of my many therapists, she said I needed to think of something physical and fun to do in order to keep my mind in the right place. 

Normally, I workout with my trainer, Ken Hunt, at Steel Gym but since having hand surgery and undergoing a week long hospitalization; I can't hit the gym yet.

My therapist looked at me with that "shrink smirk" and said, "aren't you a nightlife personality?"  When I confirmed that I was, she replied with a simple, "just dance." When did doctors start quoting Lady Gaga?  I guess this one speaks fluent gay, because she was sooo right!

Dancing the stress away might sound cheesy, but it actually works!  This Wednesday I put it to the test as King Ralphy and I previewed our new "Cupcake" party at Red Velvet on the Lower East Side.  Dancing my anxiety out worked so well that I couldn't stop.  I even hit up a few places in the East Village afterwards including a cameo at Urge to see Logan Hardcore.  The hottest part of that party are the caliente muscle boys dancing on the bar!  I even let them do a little dancing with me (for a dollar, of course!)

Next time you're feeling a little stressed, just dance.  Close your office door.  Do it in the streets.  Come dance with me on Tuesdays at Vlada, Wednesdays at Red Velvet or Saturdays at Rush (all located in NYC).

Don't stress, just dance!

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On your mark, get set, GO! Rupaul's Drag Race Season 2 premiered tonight on Logo. As predicted this season the show had a bigger budget and with that came production. The first celebrity guest judge was gay loving Kathy Griffin. The show seems to still have the likeable factor that made the first season such a success. Twelve beautiful girls representing the "best" of American drag.

This week the contestants had to straddle a cannon while being blown away by a wind machine. Some did great as others flipped their wig; literally. Morgan McMichaels came out on top with a beautiful photograph. Later the girls made their first garment of the season out of curtains.

Ultimately good friends Shangela Laquifa Wadley and Sahara Davenport (representing NY) had to lipsync for their life. Sahara was told "Shante, you stay" as Shangela sashayed away.

The three contestants that stood out to me were Raven, Morgan McMichaels and Sonique. Coincidentally those were the three that did the best in the challenges and are looking to be the top contenders. The Hot Tranny Mess of the Week Award goes to Mystique Summers Madison. Not only was her assemble a train wreck but her split wasn't eye pleasing either. (You gotta work harder for the big girls!)

Stay tooned every Monday night to Logo for new episodes and Tuesdays on gaysocialites.blog for a full recap!

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STUPID BITCHES CLUB

gaysocialites.blog is proud to announce that we've inducted Moscow mayor Yuri Luzhkov into the Stupid Bitches Club (SBC) for calling a gay parade "satanic".

"A gay parade... cannot be called anything but a Satanic act," Yury Luzhkov told an education conference, quoted by Interfax news agency. "We haven't permitted such a parade and we won't permit it in the future."

Parade organizers have never been granted permission to hold gay pride parades by the city authorities, leading to violent clashes with police and anti-gay protestors.

Luzhkov, being the stupid bitch that he is, called for gay marchers to be punished. "It's high time that we stop propagating nonsense discussions about human rights, and bring to bear on them the full force and justice of the law," he said.

What kind of world do we live in? This must stop!

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POLITICAL EDITORIAL

The legendary Ted Kennedy rolled in his grave over night as a Republican took his seat in the United States Senate.  I don't know how tthe people of Massachusetts supported a man like Ted Kennedy for as long as they did could vote for someone whose first move could be to destroy the main thing that Kennedy wanted to accomplish in his career - universal health care.

While I do believe that Kennedy himself is to blame a bit, and I'll explain that later.  However, the main reason the Democrats lost Kennedy's seat is because Barack Obama is our President.  I'm not ready to start screaming that "I told you so" just yet, but be warned that its coming.

Anyone who stopped by gaysocialites.blog during the 2008 campaign know that I wholeheartedly supported Hillary Clinton and am still certain that she would have made a better President.  

All we heard from Obama during the primary was that the Clintons were too polarizing.  Much to my surprise the Kennedy's jumped on the Obama bandwagon.  Looking back, that probably wasn't the best decision they could have made.

At this point, so many people feel polarized by President Obama that his own words could be what make him a one term President.  How ironic?  The iconic speaker may just blurb out his own demise.

Ted Kennedy worked nearly his entire political career to try and create a universal health care system in America, and now the person who will soon hold his seat, Scott Brown,  could ruin the late humanitarian's dream,

Thank you Mr. President.  We appreciate all you're doing to keep your promise to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" too.

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POLITICAL ENDORSEMENT

The late Senator Edward Kennedy will roll in his grave if the Democrats lose his Senate seat to the Republicans.

If Martha Coakley doesn't beat Scott Brown, then the earth might rattle.  gaysocialites.blog is proud to endorse Coakley, not just because she will help the Democrats maintain their 60 seat majority.  

The late Ted Kennedy fought for universal health care for the majority of his political career, and it would be an insult to all of his work if someone doesn't carry that torch til then end.

This weekend, Barack Obama is even headed to Massachusetts to campaign Coakley.  I encourage you to do the same.

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CHARLES ON

Lots of times I say things and many of you have no idea what I'm talking about.  As a result, I have decided to release the Charlesopedia.  I'll try to keep it updated.

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SUNDAY GOSPEL WITH SHEALITA BABAY

By Shealita Babay

[DISCLAIMER: This article is meant to be satirical.  Still, the view points reflected here are NOT REPRESENTATIVE of gaysocialites.blog, Ronnie Hokanson & Associates or anyone employed or associated with CWA or any of its subsidiaries. Please send your hate mail to ].

Friends, there are a plethora of things in this world that make us all a little "uncomfortable" at times. For some it may be black people, Jews, and midgets. For others, it may be unwed mothers, homosexual couples, and/or the cast of The Jersey Shore. To each, his or her own. Mine, however, is almost unspeakable; the words should not even be spoken without a crowbar in your hand dripping with the blood of a faggot, but I will rise above this fact for the sake of this article.

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CHARLES ON...

 

How fun is that to say? 2010?! As we say good-bye to 2009, we not only leave behind another year; but we'll also turn the page on another decade.

This is our chance for new beginnings and fresh starts. No matter how successful or happy you may be, you can always be more successful and happier.  Let 2010 be the year that you take it to the next level.  Set higher goals and stay in focus to ensure that you achieve them.

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SUNDAY GOSPEL WITH SHEALITA BABAY

By Shealita Babay

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My fellow God-fearing Americans, we are under attack! I don’t mean by those filthy camel jockey sand sucking wrong God praising Muslims, and I’m not talking about those land stealing Jew terrorists. I’m speaking of the homosexuals and their armies of Liberal Left extremist devil worshippers. Our rights are being taken away one by one everyday. The taxes from these godless democrats are going through the roof. But there is some good news coming out of this week, that fag enabler Brittany Murphy was found dead after her insatiable hunger for pharmy drugs finally became slate. Also a terrorist bomber was stopped by the good guidance of Baby Jesus. This week was looking up, until I was visually held down and raped.

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EDITORIAL

This video brought tears to my eyes.  Produced by the New York Pride Agenda, this video sends a clear message to the 38 state Senators who voted against marriage equality in New York:  "We will not go away."

The video also thanks the 24 state Senators who stood up for the rights of their gay constituents by voting in favor of civil rights and equality.

The message is clear.  We must continue to thank and support those who are for us, and at the same time we must deal with those who are against us.  If they aren't open-minded enough to see that this is the civil rights movement of our era, then those bigots need to be voted out of office.  In just a few years, proponents who are trying to suppress us now will hopefully look back at themselves in shame.

"The fight isn't over," said Speaker of the New York City Council Christine Quinn who is the first openly gay person to hold that post..

You can guarantee that gaysocialites.blog will dedicate a lot of time and money to the upcoming state-wide elections in New York state. Maybe we will see some of our own, like Chris Quinn or Mike Bloomberg, move to the state level; and we must keep our advocates like Governor David Paterson in office.

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SUNDAY GOSPEL WITH SHEALITA BABAY

By Shealita Babay

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It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year, and no I’m not talking about Aids Day.

It’s Christmas! It’s that special time of the year where we gather with our families, drink eggnog, give gifts, and celebrate the birth of our Lord.

One of my personal favorite parts of this holiday is going to neighboring Jew villages and singing Christmas Carols in German, though nothing beats giving gifts to the less fortunate during this lovely time; like the blacks.

My gift to you homos this Christmas is going to be my Holiday Ask Shealita: Advice Column. I knowww I knowww, you’re probably saying “but Shealita, All I want for Christmas is my T-Cells Back” well I can’t perform miracles, even though AIDS is a Miracle from the Lord Almighty.

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SHOT OF THE DAY

Our shot of the day comes from the West Coast.  It's San Francisco's annual Speedo Santa Run. 

Who says you can't sell a little sex to make some money for AIDS research while drawing a whole lot of awareness as well.  Oh, did I forget to mention that the Speedo Santa Run is a benefit for the San Francisco AIDS Foundation?

Makes it a little more fun to watch, doesn't it?  Who doesn't want to watch a bunch of sexy do-gooders in nothing but their speedos.  I'd chip in to that!

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CHARLES ON...

This week, the gay awards shows started wrapping up 2009 with the Glammy's and the Out Music Awards.

After every Glammy presentation, the nominees and their friends walk away bitter after discovering that the least suspected are normally the ones who get the awards. "Let's start our own awards," shouted one multi-colored queen as another said "let's just buy nicer trophies and carry them around."  Both are great ideas, but why not just offer an awards presentation that everyone sees as fair? With facts to back it and a well-chosen committee to govern it?

That's why I've decided to re-craft the GaySocialites Awards and re-name them "The New York Gay Nightlife Awards."  The GNA's will be handed out during gay pride and will recognize those who go above and beyond in New York's gay nightlife scene.

We'll continue to vote the same way that gaysocialites.blog has given away their awards for the past five years and the same way HX held their voting process as well.  A fair online ballot will be given to anyone who requests one simply by logging in to an online voting machine.

A steering committee will consist of a panel of nightlife professionals from different genres throughout the gay nightlife scene.

I'm not taking anything away from either of this week's awards ceremonies. They both had their moments.  Peppermint stole the show at the Glammy's with her fire blowing opening number, and Acid Betty pulled her own little Kanye at the Out Music Awards by stealing the stage during a bland number.

I also have to tip my hat to those recognized this week.  Each and every one of them definitely deserved it, and I can't say I discredit any of them at anything they do. 

I assume the Glammy's will continue to recognize those who bring the pizazz to the industry as the Out Music Awards shines the spotlight on the artists.  The New York Gay Nightlife Awards will recognize those who create the basis for it all and contribute the most to making each and every New York night unforgettable.

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SUNDAY TUESDAY GOSPEL WITH SHEALITA BABAY

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[Editor's note: Shealita's gospel is normally run on Wednesday, but it was bumped this week due to Glammy coverage on Sunday night.   I'm sure she loves that!]

This week has been another ferocious step toward what Sean Hannity, of Fox News fame, calls “Conservative Victory 2010”. The sanctity of marriage has been saved once again, this time in the great state of New York. This isn’t the first state to be saved from the evil grasps of homosexuality, but its one of the best examples of true Americans. New York is the center of the universe, and the world realizes that the faggots don’t run this universe. Children we must rejoice in this victory for it is the reality check that these homos need.

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FAVORITE THINGS

Every day until Christmas we're introducing you to our Favorite Things of 2009.  Each year, we tell you about little things we've discovered on our journeys that we know you'll enjoy too.

One of my most favorite things of 2009 was the addition of Sweet Tea to the menu at McDonald's.  If you follow me on Twitter, then you know that I'm @McDonald's at least two or three times each day for a sweet tea stop.

As a southern living in the big city, there are few things that really remind me of home.  Sure, I can wonder into the shopping mall or grab some Memphis-style BBQ in Time Square; but nothing says East Tennessee like a good glass of sweet tea.

If you've never tried the fresh brewed sweet tea at McDonald's, you don't know what you're missing. It's only $1 for the large size, and its very refreshing with a nice kick of caffeine to help you get through your day.

McDonald's sweet tea is definitely one of my favorite things!

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GAY MARRIAGE

Sadly, in a sense, it wasn't even close.  New York's State Senate voted down a measure on Wednesday  that would have legalized gay marriage in the Empire State.

After hours of emotional testimony, the bill was defeated by a vote of 24 to 38.

Senator Tom Duane of Manhattan made this emotional plea before the vote: "This legislation would merely provide me and tens of thousands of other New Yorkers with equal rights in New York State. It would make me equal in every way to everyone else in this chamber." 

I guess Sen. Duane's peers in the State Senate don't see him or us as equal.  It's a sad day in New York State.

gaysocialites.blog is working to obtain the roll call to see which Senators are against us and which ones are for us.  We'll publish that as soon as we receive it.

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CHARLES ON

The holiday season has a different meaning for everyone, but over all giving and receiving would probably be the central themes.

My friends and family are wonderful, so I can honestly say that I get more gifts each year than I could possibly deserve.  I also think I do a pretty decent job at finding the perfect gifts for those on my list as well.

This year, however, I plan to focus more on giving back to the community and those who need it most.

There are tons of ways to get involved during the holiday season. You could volunteer at a food bank, buy a gift for an underprivileged child or possibly attend a benefit or charity event. The options are nearly endless.

This year, I'm proud to be co-chairing the host committee for the Trevor Project Date Auction and Cocktail Party sponsored by Steel Gym, Senses Salon and gaysocialites.blog.  If you're in New York, this is a very simple way to give back. Come bid on the hot bachelors or just soak up the free vodka and entertainment at Vlada Bar in Manhattan on Friday, December 3rd at 8pm.  Why not get laid and help someone in need at the same time?

This is just one way that you can give back this holiday season. No matter what it is, please take a moment and help someone out this year.  Whether you're donating your time, money or just a smile; every little bit counts!

"Charles On" is a syndicated column published here weekly. Ronnie Hokanson is an online journalist and nightlife personality.  He currently serves as the Editorial Director at gaysocialites.blog.  For more information on the content of "Charles On", please contact .

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FAVORITE THINGS

This holiday season, gaysocialites.blog would like to introduce you to our favorite things.

Between December 1st and December 24th, we'll reveal a new "Favorite Thing" each day.  Whether you're looking for a gift for you or someone else, our Favorite Things list is guaranteed to offer variety, style and tons of ideas.

Last years list included the iPod Touch,  Starbuck's Cranberry Bliss Bar, Cherry Pal computers, Baskets by Donna, East TN Soy Candles, various clothing designers and much more!

This year's list is already stacking up to be our best one yet.  So far we're featuring our favorite underwear, foods, fitness center, electronics, clothing and more!

Want to get your item included on the gaysocialites.blog Favorite Things list?  Email for more details.

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I TOLD YA SO...

Adam Lambert's performance at Sunday night's American Music Awards sealed the deal... this guy is confused!

Lambert is all over the place in life, and lets just say this performance emulated life!  Not only did the American Idol runner-up over-sing his first live national television since losing Fox's singing competition to cutie Kris Allen, he also confused the hell out of everyone.

From making out with girls [or trannies or how ever that keyboardist identifies him or herself] to rubbing a male back-up dancers' face in his crotch, Lambert seemed a bit confused with not only who he is but what his style represents.  Some say its the label, but Lambert is taking credit for it all himself. 

That could explain it.  Adam started out as a drag performer in Los Angeles.  Last night, he served up drag.  Is America ready for boy drag? Is anyone ready for boy drag?

I wanted to like Adam Lambert so badly (simply because he's gay), but I'm less than impressed and worried that his career might be much more short lived than I ever expected.

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SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION

If you got a Glammy ballot this year, they're due at the end of the day on Friday.  If you didn't get a ballot, then you should contact Cherry Jubilee via her Facebook page. 

Cherry is the woman behind it all, and this year's she's doing it bigger and better than ever!

I've begged for your vote and even given my two cents on my fellow nominees.  Oh that's right, did I forget to mention that I'm nominated for Best Writer/ Blogger.  If you haven't turned in your ballot, then please do so now.  I, of course, would appreciate your vote!

The Glammy's honor those who contribute to gay nightlife.

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SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION

My syndicated column jumped onto two new websites this week as the Anti-Twink and Pink Banana World picked up Charles On.

Charles On is a weekly syndicated article where I rant and rave about different hot topics.  Several bloggers refer to it as my "gay Andy Rooney rant."  I guess I could see the comparison.

You can read this week's Charles On right here on gaysocialites.blog and weekly at gaysocialites.blog/charles_on and shortly there after on your favorite gay blogs such as the Anti-Twink.

The Anti-Twink and Pink Banana World are both up-and-coming LGBT blogs. Check them out if you have a moment.  If you would like to run Charles On on your website or in your publication, please contact charles@gaysocialites.blog.

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CHARLES ON...

In today's web driven world, it is simple for everyone to start feeling a little bit famous every now and again.  As more people become web savvy, everyone seems to be popping up on the web.  With a few clicks of a mouse, you can be gathering friends and producing your webisodes. After a few people show interest in your work, your head starts to swell.  The problem is that you're not as famous as you think you are.

While having hundreds of "followers" on Twitter should boost anyone's self confidence at least a little, but writing clever statements in 140 characters or less isn't going to put you in the history books.  Keep in mind, you're not as famous as you think you are.

Social networking sites likes YouTube, Facebook and MySpace can make anyone feel like a superstar.  Some of their users even claim to be celebrities simply due to their online network.  These folks often spend a lot of time recording new videos, tagging photos, blogging and posting bulletins for their web friends.  The problem is that these dilusionoids really seem to think they're raising the bar.  If you fit into this category, I hate to break the news to you - you're not a celebrity.  Not even a little bit.  Oh, and you're not as famous as you think you are.

Even though you can get followers on Twitter, fans of Facebook and stalkers on MySpace, it certainly isn't fame with easy fortune.  In all reality, very few people are going to rise to fame through social networking.  So maybe you should just get a real job, because you're not as famous as you think you are!

If you see me out and about, help keep me in check too.  Don't be afraid to lean over and whisper, "you're not as famous as you think you are!"

[Charles On is a syndicated column of rants and raves by homo-journalist, Ronnie Hokanson.  Winters is currently the Editorial Director at gaysocialites.blog.  To contact him, e-mail charles@gaysocialites.blog.]

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SHOT OF THE DAY

Our shot of the day comes from an episode of "The View" that aired last week.  On said episode, the chatter box ladies welcome mega church preacher, Joel Osteen, and dragged his thoughts on homosexuality out.

I was a bit disappointed to hear Osteen say that homosexuality is a sin and not "God's best", but I am happy to hear that he loves us anyway.  So does God (in case you missed my sermon on Sunday)!

Osteen compared homosexuality to "mistakes" that he has made in the past.  While it makes you feel a little unaccepted and second class, Osteen always reiterates that he isn't "the judge."  

What do you think about Joel Osteen and his views on homosexuality?  Should gay Christians avoid the powerhouse preacher and anyone else who thinks our sexual orientation is a sin.

I look at it like this, God wouldn't give us anything we can't handle.  God probably made me gay, because he knew I wouldn't be good at much else!  I'm capalizing on it here people!

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TELEVISION REVIEW

On Saturday night, late night TV got added an openly gay woman to the mix as "The Wanda Sykes Show" debuted on Fox.  

Unlike the new late night leader David Letterman or any of his followers (Conan O'Brien, Jimmy Fallon, Craig Ferguson and now George Lopez), Sykes has to go up against "SNL."  For that vary resaon, Wanda's show is all over the place.

It's part skit comedy, part news satire.  However, unlike the others, Wanda Sykes has a drag queen:

I think Sykes is hilarious, and you know I mostly support the gays.  I'm hoping "The Wanda Sykes" show can work through their kinks so she can stick around late night for a while!

"The Wanda Sykes Show" airs Saturday nights at 11:00pm.

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SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION

gaysocialites.blog is proud to announce that our soon-to-be fit bodies are going to be sponsored by our fabulous friend Ken Hunt (pictured here) and the gorgeous staff at Steel Gym in Chelsea.

King Ralphy, Dina Marie and I start training on Monday.  Ken and the folks at Steel are going to help us get a jump start on our New Year's resolution!  By this time next year, we're going to be some healthy gay socialites!

If you wanna join the fun and work out with us, we'll be posting our workout schedule on our respective twitter accounts (@charleswinters, @kingralphy, @dinadelicious) and on the gaysocialites.blog twitter account (@gaysocialites).  We'll also be tracking our progress here on the site.

Contact Ken Hunt and the guys at Steel Gym if you want to get fit with us.  Tell them you're a gay socialite, and they'll hook you up with a deal.  Let's get physical!

Can I give up McChicken's and Sweet Tea? Will Ralphy cut down on the cigs? Can Dina Marie get fit for her album cover?  You'll have to stay tuned to gaysocialites.blog for video and photo updates to find out!

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WHAT YOU GUYS ARE SAYING...

Now that we're accepting comments again at gaysocialites.blog, we're happy to bring back one of our favorite editorial pieces about what you guys are saying.

Last week, I reported that GLAAD is upset with the creators of "South Park" for doing an episode titled, the F-Word in which the characters overused the word "fag".  I asked if you think we, as the gay community, should be able to use the word freely.  In addition to the random gay bashing, here's what you guys are saying:

Continue reading "South Park episode sparks F-Word debate at gaysocialites.blog" »

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POLITICAL ENDORSEMENT

The race for New York's City Council in the First District hits close to home for me, literally.  That's because I live in the Financial District, and that is also the World Headquarters for gaysocialites.blog.  Regular readers know that, but what many of you may not know is that I considered running for this seat myself.

Living in a rent stabilized building that stands the threat of instability or forced evictions to make way for new condos, having someone who can represent my personal interests is clearly important.  In the primary, the incumbent Alan Gerson, was defeated by Margaret Chin.  Chin, also a resident of the Financial District turned heads doing what many of us thought we couldn't do... beat the incumbent.  

Clearly a strong personality and a grass roots leader, Chin is what we need to represent the First District of the greatest city in the world.  The person who represents from Chinatown to Battery Park and from South Ferry to Battery Bark City also represents the land on which City Hall sets.  We need a dedicated leader with a solid agenda.

That's why gaysocialites.blog would like to endorse Margaret Chin for Cty Council in our district.  We hope the 'neighborhood gays' will rally behind us and swing by the poll to vote for Chin.  She's what we need, and I'm happy to put my support behind her.

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CHARLES ON...

In case you missed it, the 11th Annual Glammy nominations are out, and I'm nominated for a second year running.  [thank you, thank you... but hold your applause]. The ballots are going out even as we speak, I'd basically like to beg for your vote.

I got my first nomination last year. I lost.  Not only did I lose, but I lost to the Bunny... Lady Bunny.  

Now, it isn't the least bit humiliating to lose to one of the world's most famous DJing drag queens.  The problem is that I'm neither a drag queen nor a DJ.  I'm a journalist with degree in Broadcasting.  I just choose to report on something that other serious journalists may not, nightlife.

That's why this year, I'm taking my Glammy nomination seriously and basically begging for your vote.  At gaysocialites.blog, we have recently expanded to become an online magazine. We're growing our format to cover more news, entertainment, politics and theatre.  My goal is to give you, the gays, a place where you can get more than gay news.  We have a phenomenal team in place, and I share this nomination with them.

With what appears to be the fall of gay print media, blogging and online news outlets are taking the lead.  Whether it is true or not, I like to think of myself as a pioneer for gay blogging.  With a Glammy win for best blogger/ writer, I hope this will give the steam to lead this industry into the future.

Who's coming with me? [Sorry, Jerry MacGwire moment.]  I'd appreciate your support and vote in this Glammy category for Best Blogger/ Writer.  If you get a ballot, circle my name and send it back... or however you kids do it these days.

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Despite the fact that Adam Lambert went totally fagged out for his debut album cover, it still looks like "the man" is trying to straighten him out a bit.

Just before the photos of Lambert sucking on a girls tit was released, it seems that Adam dumped his boyfriend.  That's right, Drake LaBry, is no longer the "American Idol" runner-ups' lover boy.

Coincidence? I think not!  The record label is probably trying to make openly gay Adam appeal to many audiences.  Maybe he should have thought about that before he went on "American Idol" in full make-up or before he worked as a drag queen in WeHo.  I'm just saying...

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SUNDAY GOSPEL WITH SHEALITA BABAY

[DISCLAIMER: This article is meant to be satirical.  Still, the view points reflected here are NOT REPRESENTATIVE of gaysocialites.blog, Ronnie Hokanson & Associates or anyone employed or associated with CWA or any of its subsidiaries. Please send your hate mail to shealita@gaysocialites.blog]

Hello my name is Shealita Babay, and I am an American. I remember a time in my life when saying “I am an American.” meant something. I remember when this great country used to be the hot shit on the block that no one fucked with. We used to have reliable cars and have goods to export out. Now the Ching Chong China Man rules the land of auto-industry and the only goods America exports is Obesity and Autism. I know I am not alone when I go to the local market looking to purchase some wares and become enraged to see that the said item I wanted is made in Portugal or Mexico city. What the hell happened to this great country?!   

We have taken God out of America is what happened to this country. Our core values and beliefs are all different now. Once we took the 10 commandments off the walls in a courtroom that’s when hell broke loose throughout the land. Women were raped, babies were ripped out of uteruses an stomped on the ground by Lesbians, villages were burned to the ground, Evolution was the new way of thinking and the ACLU slaughtered the Christians by the masses. We as a Christian nation need to rise up and over throw these fag laws, and build this country back up to its glory days! The nerve of this country to tell me that I must respect a homosexual and his “right” to pound another man in the anus is ridiculous! John Wayne didn’t take it on the chin like this, and neither will I anymore.

The nerve of this country telling me what I have to believe in and tolerate. You have no right to tell me how to think, so Liberal Fag American you can suck my taint. I am sick and tired of hearing about some Jew crying over their local school celebrating Christmas. If you Jews didn’t kill Jesus in the first place we wouldn’t be having this discussion, so why don’t you just go back to Aushwitz and make some lampshades!  As for you Abortion loving Lesbians, I hope ur coat hanger hits an artery and you bleed to death. I am pro-life we must protect all life in the uterus and also it aint abortion if my daughter trips on my foot down the stairs after she comes home thinkin she can tell me she’s marrying a black man and going to birth me a colored baby can u imagine the scourge I will have to endure at church, all them eyes on me while I walk to my pew with them just thinking “Oh there goes the grandmother with the black grandchild” Can you believe the nerve of that girl coming into my house and trying to tell me whats what?! Not in my house.

With Love,
Shealita Babay

[DISCLAIMER: This article is meant to be satirical.  Still, the view points reflected here are NOT REPRESENTATIVE of gaysocialites.blog, Ronnie Hokanson & Associates or anyone employed or associated with CWA or any of its subsidiaries. Please send your hate mail to shealita@gaysocialites.blog]

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I just wanted to drop a quick note to point out that you'll see some archives filtering their way back into gaysocialites.blog over the next few days.

It is the next step to merging our blog with the new gaysocialites.blog Online Magazine!

Hang in there, we'll be back up to speed soon.

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GIVEAWAYS

Have you picked out your winter boots yet?  Well, how about if we give you $20 to help you pick out a new pair.  

Take this $20 credit (use the code gaysociali) to use where everyone else is getting their ugg boots this year.

These are evidently the most comfortable ugg-style boots out there.  These have thicker merino sheepskin in the toes to cool during the summer and heat during the winter until you get the optimal 22 degree constant temperature.

I want to slide into a pair now! Get your new ugg boots now!

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SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION

We are days away from launching the new gaysocialites.blog Online Magazine, and we wanted to thank you once again for still coming around despite the fact that we look like this!

I guess it is kinda like when they're remodeling the wing of the mall near the parking lot, you'll still trample through the disaster area to get to Abercrombie and Hollister.  

I can't thank you enough for being so supportive!  You're amazing viewers, and without you - there would be no gaysocialites.blog!

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Everyone is probably wondering what happened here at GaySocialties.blog over the past week. Why were we off-line? Simply put, we made a mistake.

We gave one of our advertisers too much freedom, and they did something illegal. We apologize to everyone involved, and have removed that advertiser from the site for good.

At the same time, we're also preparing to launch or new website, the GaySocialties.blog Online Magazine. You're going to love the new features, and you're going to love the new content. It's definitely worth the wait.

For now, we'll be using these temporary diggs until our new place is ready.

Thanks for sticking with us,

Ronnie Hokanson
Editorial Director, GaySocialties.blog

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